How to help your pet though the loss of another pet.

As pets become more and more integrated into our families, it stands to reason they would grieve the loss of another pet, the same way people do. Pets can form unbreakable bonds, attaching strongly to other household pets—including different species—and can also experience grief and loss. One of the best ways for owners to make this grief easier is to euthanize in the home where their pet can be there to understand and say goodbye. Animals have a way to process death and loss but it can be very difficult for them to process disappearance or abandonment. Allowing your pet to be present during or after an in-home euthanasia to see and smell their companion can go a long way in processing their grief.

It is just as important to help your pet through the loss after your appointment as well. Try the following methods to help your pet battle their grief over the loss of another family pet.

1. Stick to the same schedule for your pet

Pets thrive on routine, but the loss of a companion can throw their daily schedule into turmoil. Try to maintain some consistency to help your pet feel safe and secure. For example, stick to the same time frames for meals, play, walks, and bedtime. By understanding what will happen next in their day, your pet will feel less lost without their constant household companion.

2. Shower your pet with extra attention

During times of stress and sadness, many of us turn to loved ones for comfort. Your four-legged friend wants the same and may seek your extra love and cuddles. Although you may be concerned you're pampering your pet and encouraging their clingy behavior, showering them with love and attention when they ask for it won't hurt. In fact, it's more likely to help them feel secure in their home and strengthen their bond with you.

3. Do more of what your pet already loves to do

One coping method after losing a loved one is to turn to favorite activities and hobbies to take your mind off your grief. This method can also work for your pet—play more games of fetch with them, visit the dog park more, or brush and pet them more frequently. Engaging in fun and enjoyable activities together will also cheer up you and your pet.

4. Engage in new activities with your pet

In a heartbreaking situation, you likely want to do everything you can to take your mind off the sadness and loss. Your pet can also benefit from this coping technique. Giving your pet something new to learn or a new toy to focus on may help distract them from their loss and the upheaval in the household. Try incorporating a new training routine into your typical regimen, and then host a talent show to help your pet show off their latest skills. Or, if your dog is young and active, sign your dog up for a sporting class, such as dock diving, agility, or flyball. An activity that requires substantial concentration will help distract your pet from their loss.

5. Talk to your veterinarian if your pet seems severely depressed

Some pets have an extremely rough time coping with the loss of their housemate and can experience extended grieving periods. In severe cases, your pet may not eat, become lethargic, and show no interest in their surroundings or daily activities. Some pets may change their behavior and become withdrawn, fearful, or aggressive. In such serious situations, ask your primary care veterinarian for help. Grieving pets who feel such strong negative emotions may benefit from anti-anxiety medications or a referral to a veterinary behaviorist.

A pet that loses its housemate may go through an incredibly tough time. If you think your pet is struggling with grief, ask your family veterinarian for more advice. If you think you need an in-home euthanasia please call our office at (802) 871-2329 to make an appointment.